Buying Intimate Products as a Couple: What to Actually Talk About

Shopping for intimate products together sounds simple until you actually try it and realize neither of you said out loud what you were actually comfortable with. A short conversation first makes the whole thing easier.

Talk about comfort level before browsing

Naming what you are open to and what you are not, before scrolling through options together, saves an awkward moment later. It is a lot easier to say no to something in a calm conversation than in the middle of browsing when one partner has already gotten excited about an idea.

This does not need to be a long, formal talk. A quick, honest exchange is usually enough.

One person browsing is completely normal

You do not both need to sit and scroll through every option together. It is common, and perfectly fine, for one partner to do the research and bring a few choices to the other for input or approval.

What matters is that both people feel included in the decision, not that both people did the same amount of scrolling.

Agree on cost when it matters

For a bigger purchase, like a reusable sleeve or ring meant to last a while, it is worth explicitly agreeing on whether the cost is shared or covered by one person. Assuming rather than asking is where small frustrations tend to build up.

Delivery takes one worry off the table

Discreet, unmarked packaging means neither partner has to think about what a delivery rider sees or what shows up on a shared bank statement. That is one less thing standing between deciding to buy something and actually following through.

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